Frequent Asked Questions
Foster Genuine Connections Through Shared Experiences
Thank you for visiting Breaking Bread, where we blend the warmth of in-person connections with the convenience of modern technology. Our unique approach to matchmaking ensures that you meet compatible individuals in a relaxed, enjoyable setting.
Got a question?
At Breaking Bread, we focus on creating meaningful connections through shared experiences. Whether you’re attending a cozy dinner or an engaging group activity, our events are designed to foster genuine relationships. Guided by Aunty Jane, our personalized matchmaker, we combine human intuition with advanced technology to ensure every match is tailored to your unique preferences.
We understand you may have questions about how Breaking Bread works. We’ve compiled answers to some of the most common inquiries. If you have additional questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to our support team.
What can I expect when I sign up with Breaking Bread?
Your journey begins with a warm conversation with Aunty Jane, who helps us get to know you better. You’ll gain access to exclusive community groups and be invited to curated events designed to foster genuine connections
I’m busy and find it hard to balance dating with my work schedule. How can Breaking Bread help?
Breaking Bread is designed with busy professionals in mind. We offer flexible event schedules, both online and offline, allowing you to participate at times that work best for you. Our approach ensures your time is well spent by introducing you to compatible matches without the endless swiping.
How does Breaking Bread handle my data?
Your privacy is our priority. We do not sell or share your data with any members. The information you provide is used solely for creating meaningful matches and facilitating events.
How does Breaking Bread use AI in the matchmaking process?
We leverage AI to conduct detailed surveys that help us understand your preferences, interests, and values. This data is used to create highly personalized matches. However, the human touch remains central to our process—our team organizes and facilitates events to ensure you have the best experience possible.
What makes Breaking Bread different from other dating services?
Breaking Bread is more than just a dating service; it’s a community focused on genuine connections. We combine AI-driven surveys with the warmth of human facilitation to maximize your chances by putting you in the right place at the right time. Our emphasis on in-person interactions through curated events fosters meaningful relationships in a safe and supportive setting. We currently serve members based in Waikato, Auckland, and Bay of Plenty Regions only.
How does Breaking Bread address the issue of ghosting and poor communication?
We prioritize respectful and open communication. Members can report inappropriate behaviors, and we have strict community guidelines to follow. If a member does not comply, their membership will be revoked to maintain a respectful environment.
How does Breaking Bread ensure the safety of its members during in-person events?
Your safety is our top priority. We verify the identity of all members through comprehensive checks and take reports of any misconduct seriously. Our events are held in safe, public locations, and our team is always on hand to assist.
How are events organized and what kind of events can I expect?
Our events are carefully curated to ensure enjoyable and meaningful interactions. If six members indicate they are free for a Saturday lunch in Auckland and all enjoy Korean food, they will receive an invitation to a Korean restaurant for a group lunch. Each event typically includes 6-8 people, with a balanced mix of genders.
Can I attend events I am not invited to?
No, you cannot attend events you are not invited to. All events are invite-only to ensure a tailored and comfortable experience. Please share as much detail as possible with Aunty Jane, and update her if your preferences or availability change.
Can I access other members’ profiles?
While you cannot access other members’ profiles directly, you will receive invitations to join our exclusive community groups with your membership form. This approach maintains privacy and encourages organic connections through group interactions.
Will you schedule 1:1 blind dates for me?
No, we focus on group dates. Each event includes 6-8 people, allowing you to meet multiple potential matches in a relaxed setting. You can then choose your own 1:1 dates afterward based on your interactions and connections.
Do you have support for the LGBTQIA+ community?
Breaking Bread is a community-led service, and we strive to support all our members. If we have enough people with shared interests in the LGBTQIA+ community, we can certainly organize tailored events and groups to ensure everyone feels included and valued.
How does Breaking Bread handle negative experiences or conflicts between members?
While we can’t control individual behaviors, we have a reporting system in place. If a member breaches our guidelines, they will be removed to maintain a respectful environment. We encourage open communication and provide support to resolve any conflicts.
Where are you based?
We are based in Waikato but can organize in-person events where most of our members are located, including Auckland and Bay of Plenty Regions.
Who’s paying for the costs at the events?
These are individual expenses. Each member pays for their own costs at the events they attend.
Are there any other costs other than the membership fees?
Yes, there is a $5 fee per event you say yes to. This commitment fee helps reduce no-shows and ghosting. If you are unable to make it to the event, we require 24 hours cancellation notice, otherwise the costs charged by the venue owners will apply if any. $5 is non-refundable. If you RSVP no, there is no charge.
Can I pause my membership if I need a break from dating?
Yes, we understand that life happens. You can pause your membership at any time. While paused, you won’t receive in-person event notifications, but you can reactivate your membership whenever you’re ready to continue your journey with Breaking Bread. Just let Aunty Jane know, and we’ll take care of the rest
How does Breaking Bread support members who are introverted or shy?
We cater to all personality types, including those who are introverted or shy. Our events are designed to create a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere. Aunty Jane will also ensure that your matches understand and appreciate your personality, making interactions more comfortable.
What happens if I don’t feel a connection with anyone at an event?
At Breaking Bread, we believe in the importance of chemistry and genuine connections. If you don’t feel a connection at an event, that’s okay. Aunty Jane will use your feedback to refine your matches and invite you to future events where you might find a better fit.
Can I bring a friend to an event for support?
Our events are designed for members only to ensure everyone has the opportunity to meet new people in a comfortable setting. However, we encourage you to talk to Aunty Jane if you have any concerns or need support.
How does Breaking Bread handle allergies or dietary restrictions at events?
Your health and well-being are important to us. When you RSVP to an event, you can let us know about any allergies or dietary restrictions. We’ll work with the venue to ensure your needs are accommodated.
What happens if I need to cancel my attendance at an event?
If you need to cancel your attendance at an event, simply let our support team know as soon as possible. If you cannot accept the invitation, you won’t be charged the $5 commitment fee. This helps us manage the event effectively and accommodate other members who might be interested.
How do I provide feedback about an event or my matches?
Your feedback is invaluable to us. After each event, you’ll have the opportunity to provide feedback directly to Aunty Jane. This helps us refine our matchmaking process and improve future events, ensuring that your experience with Breaking Bread continues to meet your expectations.
Can I change my preferences after signing up?
Absolutely! We understand that preferences and availability can change. You can update your preferences at any time by talking to Aunty Jane. This ensures that we always have the most accurate information to make the best matches for you.
How can I contact the support team if I have an issue or question?
If you have any issues or questions, you can reach out to our support team through the contact section on our website or directly via email. We’re here to help and ensure that your experience with Breaking Bread is positive and seamless.
What types of activities can I expect at Breaking Bread events?
Our events include a variety of activities such as intimate dinners, cooking classes, wine tastings, and outdoor adventures. Each event is designed to foster genuine connections in a relaxed and enjoyable setting, catering to the interests of our members.
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